November 2009

Tis the season for everyone to begin getting together with family.  Just remember that everyone is different and we need to accept others as they are.  Remember the things that make them special to you.  Each of us have our own special quirks, so enjoy the person where they are.

If you are giving gifts, you might consider giving those you love more of your time.  Try to spend at least 30 minutes with your family.  You need to set aside at least 30 minutes for your significant other during the day, as well. Share your positive feelings you have about them and yourself.  Listen carefully without interrupting. Express your love and caring. Remember, block out your time with them just like an event you, so that you have the time.  Time is very important to relationships. 

Other family members will enjoy your time too.   Perhaps, a telephone call, a personal visit, a lunch or dinner.  I t is not important to spend money to show how much you care.  What is important is that you really listen when you are in someone's company.

Last , but certainly no least, give yourself some time.  It may be hard, but schedule it in.  Quiet time to read a book, just think, whatever might feel good and give you a time to be refreshed from the world.

Have a great holiday season!

Thoughtfully,